Other people’s words about … taking the leap
I cannot be the only woman who fantasises, sometimes, about spinning the wheel, driving her car off a cliff. It seems impossible to do, and therefore I long to do it. If only to make a hole in the preordained. If only to do something other than follow along, bumper to bumper, a dutiful mirror, for once in my life. If only to destroy something, even if it is myself.
I say this, but I can’t even take a leap into the goddamn ocean.
From ‘The Lightness’
by Emily Temple
I like the words by Emily Temple in the passage above, not because I often think about taking a suicidal plunge (I don’t), but because they are fearless. Because they acknowledge the violence inside us. Because they confess to a longing for the impossible, no matter how destructive the longing is.
I’ve spent the weeks (months, in fact) since I last wrote in here going about my life quietly, methodically, following each day, as Temple might have it, bumper to bumper.
Like everybody else in the world, I would call this a strange year, a troubling year. If I had to describe this year in a few, broad brushstrokes, I would say: there has been fire (in both hemispheres now); there has been a plague; there has been an insane king, bent on destroying his kingdom, while his subjects watch on, appalled.
There have been fires; there has been a plague.
In my own little world, on a more personal scale, I’ve turned fifty; I’ve mourned the loss of running in my life, due to an injury that I have yet to overcome; and I’ve farewelled my old dog. Life this year feels entirely strange and yet at the same time preordained, a statement I confess I can provide no explanation for.
I want to finish by adding something wise, something pithy, here, but nothing comes to mind. Sometimes, you just have to keep moving, keep avoiding those cliffs, until you are ready to leap into the goddamn ocean.
Lately I’ve been reading …
- … “My concern is that Kenya will become a dumping ground for plastics,” said Dorothy Otieno of the Centre for Environmental Justice and Development. “And not just for Kenya, but all of Africa”: On the global plastics industry, and why Scientific American is endorsing a presidential candidate for the first time in 175 years.
- … The evidence and the science show that Donald Trump has badly damaged the U.S. and its people—because he rejects evidence and science: Another reason why you might want to vote for Joe Biden if you are an American.
2 thoughts on “Plunge”
Great quote – I know that feeling!
No worries on where I’m putting my vote, this insanity has gone on long enough. The next month will be hell though… just have to take it one day at a time. My biggest fear is the election will be stolen again through gerrymandering. But of course, Congress won’t change to the popular vote because they would lose their election!
Sorry to read of the loss of your sweet companion, Rebecca. The hardest part of pet ownership is that final goodbye, the worst.
Thank you, Eliza. You take care, and I have all my fingers crossed for the Election results! xo