Don’t look at me

Other people’s words about … marriage

Cece, one of the protagonists in Erich Puchner’s novel Dream State, is a woman after my own heart. Having married Charlie, a man she is deeply in love with, she runs off with his best friend Garrett, a man whom she meets just before her wedding — the man whom Charlie has in fact asked to officiate the wedding, the man who (briefly? forever?) captures her heart in a way that Charlie can’t. Because Garrett understands Cece. Garret sees her. And it feels magic to Cece.

Or does it?

I love Puchner’s exploration of love in the passage I’ve quoted above. I love the idea that love — romantic love, enduring love, the love between two people — might be the opposite of a truth-finding mission, that it might instead be about finding someone who [makes] you forget about yourself. I love the idea that maybe sometimes that’s where the magic between two people lies: in the way they can help each other turn away from sorrow towards joy, towards their more beautiful selves. It’s a lovely, if also poignantly humorous, reworking of the idea of romance.

Easter table, 2026.

On the topic of stories about romance and love, I’ve just had a story of my own published, which is about a couple who meet and fall in love in Cairo. If you’d like to read it, you can find it over at The Marlowe Review. It’s called City of Light.

I have some other stories coming out this year, which I’ll provide links to here as they come out. I’m excited to be seeing my words in print, online, after all these years. Writers, I think, are a little like lovers — we write our stories to share our secret sorrow, but we also write stories in the hope that we can help a reader forget themselves for a little while as they lose themselves in our words.

That’s what we try for, anyway. That’s what I try for.

Lately I’ve been reading …

Clamour

Other people’s words about … the city at night

When I read Teju Cole’s description above of Lagos, I thought of my own experiences of Cairo when I lived there for a few months many years ago in the 1990s. Yes, I thought. A vast sonic mix of an ocean, I thought, yes. They are different cities — of course they are — but still, Cole’s description captures something of the essence of Cairo for me. That tremendous, beautiful clamour.

Hello, everyone! It’s been a minute since I last posted. I’ve been busy writing and living (and, yes, living and writing), and — always — reading. Meanwhile, an algal bloom has spread along the coast of South Australia. A bushfire has burned through beautiful Deep Creek. A president in a country much bigger and more powerful than my own has tried to buy Greenland. In the face of all the sadness and madness and badness of this world, it’s hard not to feel anything but grief. In the face of all of this, that is to say, I do only what I know how to do, which is to remain present. Show up. Keep living and breathing and writing and reading. Keep living in a way that is meaningful to me. This is all I can think of to do.

Melaleuca bush in flower in the scrub, February 2026.

I took the photo in this post this week while I was out on a run through the scrub. It was a hot afternoon and I was tired and my legs felt very heavy, but I still treasure running, no matter how slow a runner I am these days, and so I pushed on for twenty minutes or so. All along the path, as I ran, the melaleuca bushes were in flower, their creamy blossoms emitting a kind of musty, dusty scent that I love. Can you see a bee in the photograph? There is one, if you look closely; indeed, there were many bees in the bushes, busying themselves with pollen. In close-up, here in this photograph, what you can see is only beauty, but the truth is that on the opposite side of the path along which these bushes grow, the land has been cleared for subdevelopment; it is now bare of growth.

More houses, less trees, less bees — that’s the bigger picture. Yes, this is a metaphor. To extend the metaphor, I will add that I also took a picture of the road, the cleared land (the bigger picture), which I planned to include in this post, but at the last moment I changed my mind. It doesn’t help, I think, to focus on the bigger picture. Let’s be grateful for the small islands of beauty that remain in this world.

I’ll be back again in a few weeks with links to some stories that I’ve had accepted for publication in online literary magazines, for anyone interested in reading my short fiction. In the meantime, for today, I’ll leave you, as always, with some reading. This year, I’m changing my focus in the ‘Lately I’ve been reading’ section and will be providing links to a selection of fiction and poetry there instead of essays and articles. Micro fiction, flash fiction, short stories, poetry — there’s a wealth of beautiful work out there, and that’s what I’ll be providing links to this year.

Lately I’ve been reading …